The Limerick Open



Dave Basinger
Open Champion 2006, 2016, 2020
On October 3rd at 5:00, many of the Limerick faithful attended a memorial for our beloved Dave Basinger. The venue was Tuell & McKee funeral home in Tacoma. The room for gathering held around 150 to 200 people and was packed. All around the room were memorabilia from Dave’s life. Jerseys from his teams…the Redsox and the Raiders along with other items showing the activities that he loved. In the front there was a video playing that showed different pictures of Dave with his wife and friends. Many of the pictures were of Dave hiking with people and other activities, all of the pictures were very cool, full of activity and smiles.
Steve McCully headed the ceremonies, and as per usual was terrific! He explained that the format for the ceremony would be simple…it would be an open mic for people that wanted to talk about Dave. He also explained that Dave’s family shared with him that the cause of Dave’s death was still not known.
The first few people that spoke about Dave were friends that parachuted with him. They had many memories, most of which revolved around Dave’s passion for the sport and the adventures they had shared. Other memorable people that spoke included his sister. She explained that Dave was much younger than his siblings, so much so that he had a niece that was his same age. Like all of the speakers, she did a tremendous job of explaining what we all knew about Dave, very passionate and fun-loving. He also had numerous colleagues that spoke. Very fun to hear how much they enjoyed him, and how they will miss him terribly.
Limerick was well represented at the ceremony. If my count is correct, there were 15 of us. McCully, Chris Brauer, Ted Carlson, Kevin Clark, Tom Eilertson, Eric Fiedler (and son-in-law Chad Major) John Meagher, Randy Tough, Kurt Sutton, Frank Wood, Jerry Heinlen, Randy Kaczor, Scott Wingate and me. Four of us shared some stories. McCully multiple times between other people when there were lulls. One of the his best stories was about when he officiated Dave’s marriage to his wife Ryna. Steve has officiated many weddings, but he said that he has never seen a more enthusiastic groom! I was next of the speakers for our Limerick group. I explained how Dave was always willing to do whatever it took to make the tournament fun. In 2020 he won Division 2, and then 2 years later he dropped out after the first round with an injured back. The cool thing about Dave was that he was just as friendly and happy-go-lucky both years. I also explained that there was a rule named after him called the “Basinger Rule” in which he (along with McCully I think) figured out that if he wasn’t going to score on a hole, that he would hit his ball outside of “flaggie” range to get another chance at a point. In concluding my part, I asked for everyone in the audience to stand up if they had played golf with Dave. There were many people that stood up.
Kaczor was next with regard to our group. He did a great job of explaining how he was the one that hired Dave. One of the funny lines he shared was in explaining an unorthodox interview question he asked Dave. He said to Dave “how will you handle a smart-ass”? and Dave replied something to the effect, “that is easy, because I was one”! He also shared the story of how he set Dave up with his wife. Kaczor was Ryna’s boss and asked her if he could give Dave her number. Randy had great things to say about them both, and his talk was definitely one of the highlights of the ceremony.
Last, but certainly not least, was John Meagher’s part. Meagher told how after one of our Limerick’s at the ending ceremonies, he found out that Dave was going to be his son Max’s teacher at Nautilus Elementary the upcoming school year. He explained that the group at Limerick would likely not be the first place to look for a teacher for his elementary-aged son. He went on to share how much of an impact Dave had on Max. In Federal Way students are to lead their own conferences, and Max led his conference with both John and his wife Karin along with Dave . During those conferences John shared how touching it was to see how much Dave cared for Max and was adept at building up Max. In a choked-up moment, John said it was obvious that Dave loved Max and certainly Max shared the same sentiment. After getting the news about Dave, John asked Max to share some thoughts. Max explained that he remembers Dave as a guy that had great energy. He also recounted a time where he and Dave walked around Nautilus and shared some time together. John’s talk was one of the last talks and was really moving. Perfect spot in the lineup for helping to bring some closure.
I know, that if you are like me, that it is hard to accept that this happened. For us, Dave had a special role at Limerick. A guy that would bring great energy regardless of how he was playing. He also would fit in with any group and be ready to provide a spark to his scramble team or his foursome. As many of us did not see him much outside of Limerick, next August’s event is going to be bitter-sweet. No question that things are not going to be the same without him, but to honor him we can continue to do what we do, keep enthusiastic, have fun and enjoy each other! You certainly will be missed Dave…RIP
Mike "Commish" Minahan
I am struck by how fast time flies. A decade in Bethel? Wow. I know that after he left Illahee he was at Nautilus K-8 for at least 2 years. Ellie remembers him doing his student teaching at Saghalie around 1997 and then he was a Brave for all those years. It doesn’t take long before you’ve known someone for a significant part of your life. What a shock to lose him. What a good guy.
Ellie said she will never forget David standing outside his room between classes and greeting students with his loud enthusiastic voice and smiling face saying “Welcome friends”. Can’t you just see that?
I will always remember how grateful and proud he always seemed to be for everything he was a part of. So proud to be a Brave. So grateful to be a “Limerick” guy and so dedicated to improving and proud (proud might not be the correct word, maybe enthused is better) with his Limerick success. So very proud and grateful to be married to Ryna. I got to do his wedding in 2010 (I think) and I don’t remember a groom more proud, or more enthused, more grateful than David was that day!
He did so much stuff. Great stuff. And the stuff we do is not really the most important way to evaluate our lives, but still, he was remarkable that way. He musta parachuted 1,000+ times (he could tell you the number😊)…I think he might still be a member of the largest group of parachuters every connected in the air. He flew to Florida for a few days to be a part of that record setting team. He could tell you how many they had. I think it was 90-100. When he wasn’t sure if he wanted to teach forever he pursued a nursing certificate (is that what you call it)while continuing teaching. When Fantasy sports went almost exclusively online he learned how to do it and set up a couple of Illahee leagues(baseball and football) that are still going but whose future are now suddenly in jeopardy. He wasn’t really a golfer when he started at Limerick but was so grateful to be a part of it and so enthused about getting better that he became a member at the Classic and, guess what, got better. The second year of what became my 7 year “retire-rehire” gig at Illahee there was no position open that I could be “rehired” for and David was scheduled to teach math at Illahee (he had been teaching science), but when a Language Arts position opened up he asked the principal if he could teach that instead of math to open up a math job. And I could go on and on but there would be no end to the stories.
So Chris called me Sunday morning very, very upset with the news he had just gotten and I talked to a couple guys later that day, but the first Limerick guy I saw was Eric when I subbed at Enumclaw HS Monday. My room was two doors down from him so, of course, I went to see him before school and before I even got to him I saw him shaking his head and by the time I got to him I saw him starting to tear up and pretty soon we were hugging in the middle of the hallway on a Monday morning before school started. The kids walking by were undoubtedly wondering “who is this stranger Mr. Fiedler is hugging and why?” but we were just remembering a remarkable guy who we don’t get to see anymore. So sad, yet so grateful for the memories.
Steve McCully

So sad. Dave was such a cool dude and he'll be missed greatly.
18 Limericks ago, August 2006, Dave edged me out for the D2 Green Jacket at The Classic. I was so bummed but I remember how happy Dave was and how gracious a champion he was. Later that Sunday night/early Monday morning my first and only son was born, Johnathan Tough. 9 years later, Dave would have him in class at Nautilus Elementary in Federal Way and I would volunteer at the school as a Watch DogDad. While I was supposed to bounce around from class to class to help other teachers, I always found myself in Dave's classroom. He was easy to be around and made it fun for the kids (and me) with his smile, quick wit and caring spirit. Rest in Peace Dave. We love you.
Randy Tough

Only a few of you know that I made a decision nearly 26 years ago to hire Dave as a teacher at Illahee Jr High. It was one of my unconventional interview questions that sealed the deal. The question was: How do you deal with “smart asses”? Dave’s response: “I was one”. I will miss him dearly RIP.
I will also add that after I retired as Federal Way High School principal in 2006 I did a gig at Sacajawea and hired Dave’s current wife (an awesome lady) as a English teacher and put them in touch with each other.
Randy Kaczor

Dave B was always such a welcoming force at Limerick, willing to play with anyone and always a great contributor to the joy of my foursome whenever we played together, which was quite often. He stayed overnight at my place for several years and always the first to ask if there was anything he could do to help out. We were neck and neck for the D2 championship a couple of times, and he always seem to be able to turn his game on when the pressure increased. I never heard Dave complain about anyone (except maybe his Boston Red Sox when they were losing while he tracked the game on radio in his golf cart) and he always arrived full of enthusiasm and ready to have fun! He was a guy who seemed to be a friend to everybody, and he will be greatly missed. May he rest in peace and his family - along with all of us who enjoyed him every year on the first Sat in August - be comforted in their, and our, time of loss.
Jerry Heinlen

To all of the truly great men of Limerick,
Thank you to all of you who have expressed your thoughts, stories and memories of our friend, David. I was so touched by what Randy Tough shared with us. I didn’t know that Dave taught Randy’s son, and the other Randy’s grandson, until days ago. We are all so connected in so many wonderful and strange ways. Speaking of connected. Did you guys know that Uncle Mark, Doc Harding, Chris Brauer, Chris Longer and Brauer’s son went to a college football game together at the Rose Bowl a couple of weeks ago?
How cool is that?
Back to our buddy David. In 2003, I became the Head wrestling coach at Illahee. Frank Wood was recruited to FW High School to be the Head Wrestling coach. FW got the guy they wanted, Illahee got stuck with me. One of the first things I did was hire David as an assistant. He didn’t know ONE thing about wrestling….but, he was loud, really loud. He had the booming almost frightening voice. Perfect for young wrestlers, wearing headgear, to hear in a loud gymnasium. In addition to his great coaches voice, he had great enthusiasm, he never missed, and he picked up the basic stuff quickly. Our wrestlers absolutely loved Coach Basinger
I’ll never forget our District Tournament David’s first year. We had a great team and we had a bunch of kids in the finals. A very big deal back in the day. The finals were held on two mats going at the same time. I had lost my voice and needed coach Basinger to coach our kids. I would tell him what to yell and he would do it. For the most part….we were a good team. Occasionally, he would yell the right thing at the wrong kid and sometimes he would yell something that NO ONE in the gym knew what the hell he was taking about. Did I mention earlier that David knew nothing about wrestling?
Our team destroyed everybody in the tournament and Coach Basinger was a huge reason for our success. The next season I brought in two wrestling guru’s, Steve McCully and Mark Roberts, to keep the ship floating. With McCully, Basinger, Roberts and myself running our wrestling program, what could possibly go wrong? Nothing, we were good again. Thank goodness Frank Wood came back from two years at FW and things were back to normal. A very good normal.
I remember a conversation David and I had about betting on baseball games. You guys that are into fantasy baseball all know how David loved his baseball. Anyway, David was explaining to me how he would bet on teams based on who was pitching and who was umpiring!! He knew everything about every Major league umpire. Who had what kind of strike zone, was it a day game or night game. He went on and on. The guy was brilliant!! It took a few interactions ( and years of wrestling) to realize how smart he was.
My wife taught with David for several years and absolutely loved him. She loved his sense of humor, his genuine concern for others and his desire to always improve as a teacher. It was very important to David that his students always had fun learning. Every kid who was fortunate enough to have had Mr. Basinger…..did.
I’m sorry this was so long. I’ve learned from the best ( McCully).
Tomorrow, Thursday, September 27th, Many of David’s friends are meeting at the Time Out tavern in Federal Way at 3:30. It was one of Dave favorite places. You are all welcome to join us as we remember a great friend.
You guys are an amazing group of men. I’m so proud to be a part of this “perfect foursome”. David Basinger was such a great addition to our unique group. We will miss him dearly.
Hope to see some of you tomorrow,
Tom

I, too, found Dave to be unlike anyone I have ever met. His thick Boston accent (he asked me if I had a "zippah" now on my chest after surgery) The crazy golf swing that got crazier, but somehow more effective as the scramble got later in the day. His love of baseball, the Sawx and betting baseball using his break down of the intricacies of umpires (Tom already touched on this). He was unique.
He also taught my son, Max, when he was a fourth grader at Nautilus Elementary. I remember distinctly when he told me that Max was in his class - we were sitting at the pizza joint in DuPont after playing on Sunday - hot, still a bit tipsy and trying to recover from a long weekend. Honestly, I didn't know exactly how to feel about it at the time - but that quickly changed. Max loved Mr. Basinger - and Dave always had Max's back. I remember one Student Led Conference that my wife and I went to -we left feeling like we had never felt after a SLC before - like Max was SEEN and APPRECIATED.
So, I asked Max to text me his favorite memory of Mr. Basinger and why he liked him so much. Here is what he wrote:
"My favorite memory was going on a walk around Marine Hills with him and his beagle (Dave loved that dog) before class one day, just talking and making jokes and getting to know him better. He had great energy and was super funny. I always really appreciated the interest he showed in me. It feels good to have someone with such a distinct personality like that show that they like you and I've always been appreciative of that."
My wife and I have always said that our son can always find the right words. "Such a distinct personality".
Mr. Basinger - you will be missed.
John Meagher

Such a bummer to hear about Dave passing away. As one of the newer adds to the Limerick, I really didn't have much interaction with Dave before this year and honestly, I had seen him around but never really learned his name before playing with him this year. I had such a great time playing with him and he was just such a positive force on our scramble team and so fun to be around. I'll miss him. I wish I had known him as well as many of the rest of you do. It's been great to hear of the positive impact he has had on so many and not at all surprising to hear.
Rest in peace Dave. God be with you and yours.
Lon Welch

I think I can speak for all if us to say that our hearts weigh heavy today.
Dave was such a positive force within the group. Everything was funny when in his presence. Great story teller and honest with his emotions and past struggles he would share.
Rest in peace, Dave, and may your family find solace in the good times you shared.
Joel
Just been thinking a ton about Dave since last weekend like I’m certain everyone has been. I believe all of you have been put into my life for a reason. I’m so far from perfect but I get reminded that I need to work on me quite often. Ole going out of his way to have a conversation with me on Jerry’s deck at one of his last Limericks when I was in full on pouting mode after an awful round was a cool moment. Just today, as I attempted to drop out of a little golf thing with Brauer/Meagher because my game is beyond awful currently, John reminded me in his own way that my golf game isn’t the reason why I was invited. (Thank God) I suppose what I’m trying to say is that I greatly value people that allow me to be myself but refuse to allow me to lose sight of what is truly important. Dave was ALWAYS that guy. He accepted you without any reservation and always was interested in your life. We had some fun moments: my 50th in Vegas, tailgating in my driveway with Brauer at 7am for a Seahawks game in Chicago, and many rounds of golf and necessary attitude adjustments. Thanks Dave. You will be both missed and remembered.
I hearby propose that on Saturday of the next Limerick that you join me in wearing red socks in honor of Dave and his love for the Boston Red Sox. If this gets forgotten (or Vaughan/Brauer have already selected their outfits) no problem. I will be the guy with red socks on.
Love ya,
Fiedler aka Snake